Was unterscheidet introvertierte Menschen von extrovertierten?
Bonner Karriereberaterin im Gespräch „Extrovertierte haben es in der Krise besonders schwer“
Interview | Bonn · Wie gut kommen Menschen durch eine Krise - und haben es Introvertierte während eines Lockdowns leichter? Das sagt die Kommunikationsexpertin und Sylvia Löhken aus Bonn dazu.

Der Kern für die unterschiedlichen Persönlichkeitsausprägungen liegt im Gehirn: Introvertierte agieren nach innen gewandt, Extrovertierte nach außen gewandt. (Symbolfoto)
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